He is educated, working on a doctorate degree, employed, non smoker, drinks socially, is religious and knowledgeable about the Bible. Everything has started crumbling over the last few months. even on weekends, hes always busy. The point is if a man cares enough about his future wife and son would he want them to be safe and help them move to become a family.. Kiki, I do not like what you said about being the one who travels back and forth. Ive mentioned his lack of effort and he did take it on bored but recently Im seeing a slip into his old ways. We ended up living together briefly because he did not want to be apart from me. I sacrifice so much for him & he doesnt even show it. Dont tell him, because he might try to manipulate you. But I have stopped always responding to him quickly and am now just being courteous but not engaging beyond that, and he gets concerned and starts asking whats wrong, am i mad at him, etc. While you should always feel free to express yourself and say whats on your mind, take a good look at the way you're communicating. I know that probably sounds silly but his replies are shorter and he doesnt joke around with me like he used to do. I feel like Ive tried everything to get us back on track so weve just spoken on the phone & hes going to think about things tonight. So my boyfriend and I been dating a little over a year now and I feel like with him its just a chore to hang out with me. you can still offer him emotional support (from a distance) if he needs itgood luck, xoxo. Soon realizing i wasnt going to come back to where i met him i tried to break it off. Back as a baby, he said the vet said not to let her sleep or have that on for a while because she is a labradoodle and it makes their hair very knotty and bad for their skin. For example, his car broke down in a town more then an hour away. When leaving to go home, 98% of time, he kisses me passionately and holds me tight. Hes shows effort but due to my insecurities I overthink when I stop seeing the efforts and assume the worst. Its not just a lack of attention. Boy bye. So me and my bf have been dating fur about 5 months now. It doesnt matter what words youre saying, the message is clear: I will tolerate this, as long as you let me explain repeatedly why I dont agree with it. The most important lesson Ive learned from my love life is this: My role is to set boundaries. Best to all! Do you have an suggestions on what I should do? 1. If you want to know how to keep an Aries man chasing you and texting you back, ask him a practical question. WIth or without them. We look for people to fill our emptiness and when they arent meeting the standards we become emotionally unstable. Any thoughts ppl? And i couldnt forget it. You didnt like THAT answer, did you? DESAFIO SINTONIA DA PROSPERIDADE: https://hotm.art/bMGvF75N I dont know what to do. But whatever. Im going through the same thing now. As well BALANCE is a VERY hard thing for men I have learned. I love him very much and I know that he loves me but deep down i often wonder how much i mean to him or if i mean much at all. Hi Jessica, Sweetie this man is never going to love you the way you want him too.He may love you the only way he knows how and its not a healthy kind of love by your comments. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years. We met online and in a long distance relationship and we have not met in person. As of now, we have been back together in a relationship for about a year and a half. My boyfriend made no effort for my birthday and sent me a 2 line email and when I expressed my disappointment didnt speak to me for days. Text messages are very slow to respond, I dont text him ten times a day either. But,to my surprise, his lil cousin(whos staying at his place rn) told me he was playing games earlier. At first, he was working, seeing his daughter, making me coffee in the morning, starting my car for me, doing dishes, and laundry and now ten months in, he lost his job, and I have no idea if hes looking for a job. While he was living with his mom he got a job and was so focused on that..he didnt talk to me as much anymore. This is where my first question comes in: how well do you know your boyfriend? I dont think he knows how a relationship works or I am just difficult to be with. I love drinking with him and having a laugh but he doesnt seem to feel the same. This is all so contradictory and Im confused about our relationship. It just seems like a cliche movie begining or something. The first time I actually felt MORE irritated. Even when I have my moments he still comes back around. Oct 1, 2017 I was at the Rought 91 shooting in Vegas, Febr 2018 my husband at the time decided to go back to being a Jehovahs witness and puts a ton of stress on our 17 years of marriage, March 2018 get fired from new job of 2 months, July 2018 he cheats on me and divorces me. For the past few weeks we only have time in night to chat since hes busy for work but he always talk about sex and video chat with me to see my pussy and whenever I rejected him I dont get a reply or he would say hed go to sleep. Damn this just made me cry because this is exactly what Im going through rn. I even asked around to see if anyone knew what happened and no one did. Just a text. I would appreciate any advice! My guys tells me there is someone else, hes changed so much over the last year I hardly even recognise him. Just because you have no family, dont let that make him think that he is the one whos there for you and hence, he can decide to love you when he wants to. He does have some medical issues, but seems to be taking care of most of them, he also says he does suffer from depression and I am wondering if this is what is happening. When Your Husband Still Works With His Ex Affair Partner. I dont think Ive really shared that with anyone before! or something but dont get mad if he says no just go do it because YOU want to do it Leave him the option, but if he doesnt pick up on it, just enjoy yourself anyways ^~^ cuz you deserve it You are working really hard and deserve to enjoy some time. Take matters into your own hands.be who you need for yourself, Love you and your son enough to care for your own needs. Im in school full time until July 2023 and though I have a flex pt job at Amazon, the hours and job itself is so crappy. im still giving him a 100 up till today. Maybe hes too heavy into the party, drugs, and alcohol scene. But he reminds me almost daily that he thinks Im lazy and should be working at if Im not in school. Say you have a date tomorrow night. What started as my dream sex life is now I am lucky if we do it once a month and it is usually on his terms, NOT when *I* am in the mood, planned and boring and routine. First off I pulled back without warning. I dont know what to do or how to feel.. Im trying to figure out if its his depression thats making him stress to make more money as well as not doing anyrhjng for me or the home we live in, or if he truly doesnt care for me or my feelings and Im just here for the mean time to do things for him? My boyfriend & I have been together for over 10 years. I understand exactly where youre coming from. All I think of him is selfish & inconsiderate of everyones feelings but his own. My mom knew smthn was up so she said no to taking me. We decided to move in together shortly after COVID began so I worked things out with my work and moved to his state. I tried to talk to him about it multiple times, every time he would apologize and say he would be better, but he always fell back in the same routine. However, I started to notice some changes in him, subtle ones. Weve been dating a little over a year. Sam I think you should be honest with your girlfriend and tell her this. But Im not certain its not because he now wants to hurry to get the house finished and sell it while the market is hot. So I stopped doing that and now treat him like just a friend. And are you willing to invest more years/months than to call it off now? My boyfriend got busy with his work, which is busier due to quarantine, and stopped putting in his usual thoughtful effort, so I stopped putting out, and now Im about to break up with him. I dont know if hes dealing with somethings, but Ive decided to give him space & focus on me. he briefly mentioned his bad experience with exes, he had two years marriage and he said he felt it was too long. Thats when we actually started to spend more than a few hours together and he really started to behave like he was in love. But he feels that I would have a better chance getting a job were he lives then him getting a Job where I live but thats not the point. He has broken up with me three times this year and he never asked for forgiveness. I was so happy I found him. When you feel as though your partner isn't giving you the attention you deserve, it can be incredibly frustrating, confusing, and hurtful. He Wants You To Approach Him First. I have met and gone out with his friends. He expressed his anger in silence. funny and stupid for I was foolish to be trapped with his flowering words. I make sure I put into the relationship as much as I get. P.S. But I clearly have seen enough examples of the ones who simply stops caring when they are sure that we will be theirs and we will always care about them no matter what. I can say that he is the kind of guy who only knows how to love me through his words and not by his actions. One month later. I tried discussing that with him, he told me if he was to mess up he would want someone to correct him. Also be prepared to lose him. I appreciate when he does make effort and try to acknowledge it but it quickly goes away like he doesnt mean it. Its been hard but there are better things to come. He almost kind of agrees to get it over with but nothing changes. Communication is not good. Now he is distant and asked for time and space. NEVER REALLY HELPS. 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